In fact, within the pages of my magic book, where I was manifesting the perfect man for myself, I wrote down that I wanted a man who only had three days a week to spend with me. My alpha female side needed plenty of alone time to contemplate my next moves. Every time I answered Grier’s redundant question in the same way, she would say in the exact same way “girl, you are trippin, aint no way in the world I would ask God the Universe, to bring me a world traveling man. If I can’t see him, he is not to be trusted.” My theory about monogamy is that it’s unnatural. Back in my younger days I had no problem experimenting with the opposite or even same-sex if that was something I really wanted. Out of respect for my primary relationship I always asked permission to take another lover. If my desire wasn’t approved immediately, I suppressed it until it was. It was always approved. I suppose that was because I never let my insatiable sexual hunger cloud my reality. Lovers and liaisons were experiments. My primary relationship was home. My free-thinking attitude is why a traveling man doesn’t bother me at all.
More Love Notes are on the way….